Nzira dzekugadzira dzinogona kudzivirira huzivi hweunhu pachako
- Nguva dzose itora mvumo yakanyorwa kubva kune vatengi vasati vashuma nyaya dzavo.
- Tsvaga nzira dzakagadzirisa dzekudzivirira zvido zvako uye ruzivo kune vatengi vanogona kukuvadzwa kana kunyara kana ruzivo rwavo kana nezvehupenyu hwavo huri pachena.
- Iva pachena pane zvauri kuita. Usamboedza kuedza hoodwink vabatsiri. Havazoregereri kana vakawana.
The Problem
Isu tose tinoziva kuti kutaurira nyaya pamusoro pevanhu ndiyo nzira yakanakisisa yekupa vatsigiri kutarisana nesu pakutsvaga mari yedu.
Hazvinyanzwisisike kugamuchira mari yekushandisa mari mazuva ano asingaverengi nyaya pamusoro peumwe munhu rudo rwakabatsira.
Isu tinosanganisira iyo nyaya mumabhuku edu ekubhadhara mari , tinokutendai tsamba , uye mune email yedu yekutumirana yakafanana nepepanhau .
Zvisinei, zvakadini kana rudo rwako runoshanda nevanhu vanoda ruviriro? Tichiri kuudza sei nyaya, uye kuramba takatendeseka kune vatipa panguva imwe chete?
The Solution
Ndakabvunza mibvunzo iyoyo yezvikamu zviviri zvekutengesa kwakanyanya uye kunyora vanhu vanoshanda vasina nhuro nhasi. Vakanga vari kupa zvikuru mazano avo.
Lisa Sargent, Sargent Communications
Lisa ndeimwe yevanonyora vanyori vari muchiteshi chisingabatsiri, vachishanda nemazana evatengi kwemakore.
Lisa akati, "Ndine vashandi vaviri kuti kuchengetedza zvakavanzika ndeye nyaya huru.
Mumwe anobatsira vanhu vasina misha uye avo vane zvinodhaka kana doro zvinodhaka kuti vavakezve upenyu hwavo. Imwe inoshanda nekushungurudzwa, yakasiyiwa uye inoregererwa vana. "
Hezvino zvinhu zvishoma Lisa anotaura nezvekutarisana nehupfumi nyaya dzakadai semamiriro maviri aya:
- Usashandise zita rechengeti rezita . Ichinje uye uve wakatendeseka pamusoro payo. Somuenzaniso, taura kuti "Joanne haasi zita rake chaiye, hongu."
- Ita zvinyorwa zvingaita kuti munhu wacho azive.
- Shandisa mifananidzo chaiyo uye zvinyorwa chete kana iwe wakasayinurwa kusunungurwa kana kubvumirwa pachena.
- Vamwe vanhu vanofara kugovera nyaya yavo, saka bvunzai nguva dzose .
- Shandisa mifananidzo yemunhu chaiye, asi unonyatsozivikanwa kuti ndiani . Tora mvumo yavo kutanga.
- Shandisa mifananidzo yevashandi, panzvimbo pevatengi. Iwe unogona kutora vashandi vachibatsira muteresi ane mushure akatendeuka, somuenzaniso.
- Shandisa mazamu emifananidzo uye chibvumirano . Somuenzaniso: "Paku [zita rekuti] tinoremekedza munhu wose anouya kwatiri kuti abatsirwe - uye vazhinji vari kushanda kuti vatsva kutanga muupenyu. Saka kunyange zvazvo nyaya dzavo dziri dzechokwadi, mazita evatengi nemifananidzo zvingashandurwa kuti vadzivirire avo vega. Ndinotenda nekunzwisisa kwako."
- Shandisa musanganiswa wenhau . Nyora zvinyorwa kubva pamaprofita akawanda kusvika kune munhu mumwe chete. Zvisinei, shandisa chirevo chekuti iwe wakaita izvi.
Lisa akati zvakare:
"Handisi kunyora kune ani zvake anoita zvinhu kana kuti haazorevi kushandiswa kwemapikicha emasikirwo. Uyezve, ndinogara ndichitendera avo vandinonyora pamusoro kuti vave nekana yekuongorora uye kugamuchira nyaya kana kukwidza.
"Ndinogara ndichivaudza izvi ndisati ndabvunzurudza. Izvi zvinokosha nokuti vanhu vazhinji havana ruzivo kana iwe uchizoremekedza nyaya yavo. Ndakaona kuti vanoonga uye vanowedzera kusvika pakuziva kuti vanogona kuva nekupedzisira kutarisa. Kazhinji yenguva, vanokumbira chete zvinyorwa zviduku. "
Pamela Kukura, Nyore Dzakavandudzwa Makomba
Pamela ndiye anotsvaga-mushure mumiririri uye munyori mukuru. Anonyanya kukoshesa mari nekushambadzira kune zviduku zvisiri. Pamela akabvuma kumubvunzo wangu pamusoro pekuvanzika kwevatengi uye nhoroondo:
"Ndichangobva kusangana nemamiriro ezvinhu aya ndichishanda pamwe nesangano duku risina hurisiro rinopa utano kuvana varombo. Vakanga vagovera nyaya shomanana panzvimbo yavo yepaiti uye vakange vasaina zvisikwa zvevana asi, nekuda kwevana vavo vaduku; Handina kunzwa ndakasununguka kushandisa mazita chaiwo kana mapikicha.
"Pane kudaro, ndakasika nyaya dzakabva kune dzimwe nzvimbo dzakasiyana-siyana.Ndakachinja zita romwana, nzvimbo uye dzimwe nguva madzinza.Pakare, ndashandisa mifananidzo yemifananidzo.Kutaura kuti nyaya yacho ive yakajeka, ndakanyengedza mwana. .
"Heino muenzaniso weimwe yemashoko:
Nenzira dzakawanda, Chris ndiye mwana ane makore gumi nemana. Anofungidzirwa ne baseball uye achitamba Dragons yeAtlantis pakombiyuta. Ndiye chifananidzo (uye nguva nenguva anotambudza) wehanzvadzi yake yemakore manomwe. Uye iye anopfuura zvishoma kunyara. Saka kuva mwana mutsva mukirasi yechishanu yegiredhi yeGarfield Elementary chikoro hazvina kubatsirwa nekuti Chris akanga ane meno matatu akaputsika. "
Inonyanya Kuitika?
Ramba uchiudza nyaya. Ndizvo zvinokurudzira vanopa . Asi shandisa pachena pane iwe uchidzivirira avo unoshumira. Shandura tsanangudzo, asi rega mhepo inopenya kuburikidza.