Uye iwe unoziva kuti chii chavanonyanya kubvunza mubvunzo?
Hungu, iwe wakazvifungidzira: "Pane nzira ipi zvandinogona kupedza nayo kana kukunda kutya kwangu kwekutsvaidzira?"
Vakawanda vedu tine zvimwe zvinopikisana nekutonhora kudana, uye vamwe vanhu vatinotaura navo vane kutya kwakanyanya kwemazwi uye kwepfungwa kwekutsvaidza kudana kuti havagoni kunyange kufunga kuzviita.
Mune dzimwe nzira, kutya kwekutonhora kudana kunenge chirwere-asi kwete rudzi rwechirwere chinoparidzirwa paTV kana mumapepanhau. Icho chinyararire uye chairo pachedu, kurwisana kwepfungwa kunowanikwa mumoyo yedu nepfungwa dzedu.
Kutya kunotonhora kunosangana kunorwadza, zuva rimwe nerimwe kurwisana nevashambadziri vakawanda nevatengesi avo vakambodzidziswa mumagariro ekutengesa.
Vatengi vekutengesa vatsika vanopindura mibvunzo pamusoro pemvura inotonhora kudana nenzira iyi:
- "Zvose zvaunofanira kuita ndezvokuita foni."
- "Zvose zvaunofanirwa kuita ndeyokufunga zvakanyanya pfungwa dzakanaka."
- "Ingodzidza kugamuchira kurambwa sechinhu chinowanzotengeswa."
Mune mamwe mazwi, "Ndiro mhosva yako kuti hauri kubudirira mukutengesa."
Izvi zvakafanana nekuudza mumwe munhu anotya nekusvetuka kubva pabhodhi rekubhururuka, "Usava wimp! Kungotumuka!"
Muhupenyu hwangu, vanhu vashomanana vanogona kukunda kutya kwavo nenzira iyo, nokuti shoko remukati nderokuti, kana iwe ukamanikidza iwe kuita chimwe chinhu chisingafadzi, "kungozviita" kuchagadzirisa magadzirisa dambudziko racho.
Asi iyi ndiyo mhinduro inoratidza kusanzwisiswa kwezvipingamupinyi zvose zvepfungwa zvinowedzera kutya kwekutonhora kudana.
Saka, iwe unokunda sei kutya kwako kwekutonhora kudana?
Mukufunga kwangu, mhinduro yacho iri nyore, uye inobva pakunzwisisa pfungwa nhatu dzisiri nyore:
Yakarongedzwa naLaura Lake
- Haisi Chako Chako
Hatigoni kufunga kuti pane chimwe chinhu chakashata nesu kana vamwe vanhu vachiramba vachititaurira kuti chimwe chinhu hachifaniri kunge chiri dambudziko, asi isu pachedu manzwiro emukati anotiudza kuti hatisi vakasununguka kuzviita.
Kune rumwe rudzi rwe "chikwata chevarume vekare" ekutengeserana-mafungiro anowanikwa munyika dzeChirungu, kusanganisira US, Canada, UK, Australia, neNew Zealand, iyo inoti, "Ndaitofanira kutambura kuti kubudirire mukubudirira kubudirira, saka iwe unodawo, zvakare! "
Uku kufunga kunobva kune dzimwe tsika dzekutengesa dzinoramba dziri nzira yakagamuchirwa yekutengesa.
Izvo zvaunoda kunzwisisa, zvakadaro, ndeyekuti unotya kutonhora kushanya nokuti iwe pamwe wakave wakarongedzwa chete kune tsika dzekutengesa zvetsika, izvo zvinokonzera kurambwa.
Iyi nzira dzinotidzidzisa kuti tive nekutonhora kushevedzera nenzira iyi: taurirai, tsanangurai zvaunoita, kuratidzira kubatsiri kune vanogona kukwanisa ... uye vovhara maziso enyu uye munyengetere kuti varege kupindura ne "Ndine urombo, kwete kufarira" kana kuti "Ndine urombo, ndakabatikana."
Kana iwe uchiri kushandisa nzira iyi yemagariro, zvichida unonzwa mhinduro dzakadai saizvi paunomira kutaura.
Ivo vanoramba, uye zvavanoita zvinokuita kuti unzwe wakarambwa-uye icho chikonzero chakakwana kukuita kuti usafarira, kutya, uye usadzivisa kudanidzira.
Kushamiswa kunotyisa kunogona sei kuva chiitiko chakanaka kana kuramba iwe ndiyo mhinduro yakawanda iwe unowana?
- Iko Kuzvifunga Kwako Kwakashata Here Kana Kuti Kune Utsinye?
Pese pandinenge ndichitaura nevanhu pamusoro pekutya kutonhora kudana, vanonditaurira nguva dzose kuti vanotya kutora foni nokuti havadi kuonekwa se "shungu."
Ichi ndicho chikamu chehondo yepamberi - vanozvirova ivo pachavo nekuda kwekusava nehanya uye kusava nechivimbo chekuita shanho rinouya, asi havadi kudana kuti vatye kuva nehasha.
Heino mashoko akanaka: pane nzvimbo yepakati pakati pe "utsinye" uye kwete. "
Iyi nzvimbo iyo iwe unogona kuva iwe wauri iwe uchiri kunyanya kubudirira nekudana kunotonhora, usina kumboona kurambwa zvakare.
Kuvhura Mutambo ™ inokuratidza kuti unogona kunge unoshamisa sei kubudirira mukutonhora kudana pasina kukonzera kurambwa kubva kune vashandi. Fungidzira mikana (uye inogona kuwana mari). - Dzidza Kurega Mutauro Wako Kufananidza Kufunga Kwako
Kana iwe unogona kuzviisa panzvimbo yaunogona kurega kuenda kuti unzwe kuti iwe unofanirwa kuenderera mberi uchishandisa kudana kwemafodya e "script" nemafambiro, uchazviwana iwe pachako uchishandisa mutauro waungashandisa mumutambo wepanyama.
Kushandisa mazwi emashoko nemitsara-kutaura zvakananga nenzira yaunoda nemunhu waunoziva, kunogona kushandura kudanidzira kunotonhora kuva chiitiko chinozorodza uye chinobudirira.
Uye, sezvaunotendera kuenda kuchikoro chekare chekutsvaira chimiro, umo chigadzirwa chako kana basa rako ndiyo nzira yako yega yekugadzira kukurukurirana kwefoni netarisiro, iwe uchaita shanduko inonyanya kukosha yezvose: iwe uchatanga kufunga yekuswedera kune zvingatarisira zvisingatarisiri kubva pane zvaunofunga, asi kubva kwavari.
Ndinorevei nezvo?
Fungidzira kuti zvaizova sei kana iwe ukwanisa kunzwa pfungwa dzako pamusoro pezvinetso zvavari - uye kuti sarudzo yako inogona kugadzirisa.
Kunyanya kukosha, funga kuti iwe unogonawo kunyora mazwi nemashoko akashandisa sezvavanofunga pamusoro pezvinetso zvavo, uye kuti iwe unogona kutora mutauro iwoyo uye ukaupinza mukutaura kwako kunotonhora.
"Hungu, asi ini ndaizoita sei izvozvo?" iwe ungabvunza.
Zviri nyore. Ingokumbira vashandi venyu variko zvino zvipingamupinyi zvitatu zvakakosha mutengi wako kana basa rakagadzirisa ivo.
Paunoshandura mafungiro ako, haugoni kubatsira kuchinja mutauro waunoshandisa, izvo zvinokubvumira kuti ubatanidze nenzira itsva yakanaka nemumwe munhu wauri kudana.
Kana iwe unogona kurega kuenda kuchikoro chako chekare-chikoro uye uzarurire kusvika kune imwe nguva kuti kune imwe nzira yakasikwa, yakagadzikana yekutonhora kunotyisa - imwe isingabvumi kurambwa - iwe uchashamiswa nekushanda kwako nyore 'Ndichaputsa uye kukunda kutya kwako kwekutonhora kudana.