Kurasikirwa zvechokwadi mikana
Asi kana iwe ukanyora zvipo zvekurarama, kurambwa kwakanaka kunofanirwa kuitika.
Zvinonyanya kukosha kuti sarudzo yako yekutanga kune imwe nheyo kana hurumende yehurumende icharambwa. Mumwe muongorori wenheyo huru akataura kuti makumi mapfumbamwe emapfumbamwe ezvinyorwa zvaiyambuka dhipatimendi rake zvakadzingwa pakarepo.
Saka iwe uri mukana wakanaka. Uye, mushure mezvose, isingabatsiri uye uyo anopa mvumo haana kutanga utano hwako.
Funga nezvekutanga "kwete" nhanho imwe chete kuenda kunzvimbo yakanakisisa pasi pemugwagwa.
Funga kurambwa semukana, kwete chirevo chekufa. Ita zvinhu zviviri izvi pakarepo.
- Dana nheyo, kwete kunyunyuta asi kuti uwane mamwe mashoko. Kumbira kuti utaure nemurongwa wepurogiramu (kana chengetera webhusaiti kuti uwane zita rakananga) uye bvunza mibvunzo iyi:
- Tingaita here chimwe chinhu chakasiyana pane zvatinokumbira?
- Ngatitenderei zvakare kubvumirana kwekutsvaga mari inotevera?
- Unoziva here nedzimwe nheyo dzinogona kufarira mushongwa wedu?
- Ratidza tsamba ine nyasha kune nheyo. Vongai nguva yavo, kubvunzurudza kwekuda kwenyu, uye mukana wekushanda navo.
Kana uchinge wavaka bhiriji panzvimbo yekupisa, ingangodaro nguva yekudzokorora zvikanganiso zvinowanzopiwa vanyori kuti vaone kuti hausi kuramba uchirambwa usina kuzviziva.
Heano zvimwe zvinhu zvekudzoka zvakare:
- Dzokorora matanho ako kuti uone kana wakasarudza kusungirirwa kwakakodzera kwekuda kwako. Wakanyatsotarisana nechinangwa chako kune zvisikwa zvemasimboti here? Wakanyengera nekushandisa kune imwe nheyo muNew York apo rudo rwako runogara muNevada? Vakawanda vanobudirira vanowana rubatsiro vanotarisa munzvimbo yekutanga kune zvipo zvavo. Ikoko kune nheyo dziri pedo newe dzinogona kuita matanho ari nani.
- Wakaenda kunze uye unobatanidza nesheyo usati wasarudza here? Cold inodana mukutengesa inogona kuva isina maturo, uye haisi yakasiyana mukutsvaga mari. Nheyo dzaunofarira haigoni kungova pasina, nzvimbo isingazivikanwi.
Uyewo haufaniri kunge uri mutorwa kune nheyo iyo kana iwe ukakumbira rubatsiro. Tsvaga nzira yekuziva mumwe munhu ipapo, tsvaga nhengo yebhodhi iyo inoziva mumwe munhu pachivako, kana kuti ita foni kuti uedze kufarira kwavanoita purojekiti yako.
- Kana yako isingabatsiri iri kungopinda mumutambo wemari, iwe unoda kuve nechokwadi kuti yakagadzirira kuenda shure kwezvipo . Iwe une mavara akanaka here? Iwe unonyatsozivikanwa munharaunda yako? Iwe unofambisa mari here?
Chigadzirwa chitsva chisingabatsiri chinowanzosagamuchira zvipo, uye rubatsiro haisi mhinduro kumatambudziko emari . Hapana nheyo inoda kubatsira bhaari iwe kunze. Ivo wan.t kuti vabatsirane nemasangano ane mari uye akachengetedza. - Wakaitevera mazano ekushandiswa kwako here? Nheyo dzinowanzoita kukurumidza kutsva kwezvidzidzo zvakawanda zvavanowana. Pane kukanganisa kumwe kunogona kugogodza zvaunenge waita zvisati zvasvika padhesi rekugadzirisa purogiramu mukuru. Zvakanyanya kufanana paunotumira zvakare kumushandi. Vazhinji vanorambidzwa vasati vatora zvisarudzo.
Wakashandisa kushandisa shanduro yepaIndaneti here? Izvo zvinonyanya kunyengera. Icho chinyengeri chekushandisa paIndaneti ndechekuita pakutanga usati wasvika pakutumira mutsara.
Kana iwe wakatumira mune zvekushanda, wakambozviwana panguva here? Nhepfenyuro dzinowanzosimbiswa pane nheyo. Kusasangana nemumwe kunoratidza zvakaipa pahutano hwako. Chikamu chekubatsira chichabatsira, kunyanya kana iwe ukabata maitiro akawanda ekupa rubatsiro. - Kana iwe kana hutungamiri hwehupfumi hwako usingagoni kutenda kuti chero munhu angakuregedza kuti upe rubatsiro, zvingava nguva yekuongorora zvaunotarisira pamusoro pechokwadi usati wadzokerazve kune zvimwe zvinonyadzisa. Mibairo inobatsira, asi haifanisi kuva yako yekutanga kana kuti yega yekuwana mari .
Pakupedzisira, haamboiti, inoparadza mukana wekuvandudza ukama nesheyo. Kurambwa ikoko kunogona kuva mukana wekushandisa zvakare pane imwe nguva. Uye kuramba, kutorwa zvakanaka, kunogona kutungamirira kune mari yakawanda inopa rubatsiro mune ramangwana.