Nzira yekugadzira ukama hunobatsira pamwe chete
Mutevedzeri haazovi mutungamiri wako chete, asi shamwari yako uye chivimbiso. Izvozvo hazviitike pakarepo-kuvaka chivimbo uye kufarira iwe pachako kunotora nguva. Iwe unoisa mutauriri pakutanga kwehukama nekuratidzira kuzvipira kwako kune iyo nzira.
Iwe unogona sei kusimbisa zvakanakisisa hwaro hwekuvakira hukama hwakasimba?
Noa Cirincione Yokutanga Kutaura, basa rinobatsira kutsvaga vatsigiri vebhizimisi, rinoti kusagadzikana uye kugadzirira kunokosha.
"Kuwedzerwa kwekukurukurirana kwakakosha muhukama hunoita kuti chidzidzo chifambise mberi.Kumwe kukurukurirana mutsva nemuongorori kunofanira kusanganisira zvinyorwa kubva kune mentee pane zvinhu zvinokurudzirwa muhurukuro yapfuura."
Anoyeuchidza kuti mutungamiri anofanirwa kunge akabatanidzwa mumufananidzo mukuru, kwete kungoita tsanangudzo. "Kushanda pamwe chete kugadzirisa zvinangwa zveMente zvingave zvakakosha. Haasi kungoti mutungamiri / mutauriri anotaura nezvezvinoitika, vanofanirwawo kufunga nezvezvinangwa zvenguva pfupi uye ndezvenguva refu."
Uya kumisangano yese yakagadzirirwa. Uya nemutambo wokurekora waunosarudza: peni uye pepa, PDA, laptop, kana izwi rerekodhi. Tora nguva yekuongorora zvinyorwa zvako uye kugadzirisa zviito zvichienderana nemanotsi ako. Usati waita musangano unotevera, dzokorora zvinhu izvozvo uye nyora nezvemaitiro avo. Uya nemashoko kumusangano unotevera kuti uongorore.
Pane zvakawanda kune hukama hunobudirira hwekupa mazano kunze kwemisangano yakarongeka, zvakadaro.
Denise Michaels, nyanzvi yekutengesa iyo inoshanda nevanyori vakatengesa zvakanyanya Robert Allen naMark Victor Hansen sechikamu chepurogiramu yavo yekuchengetedza, vakarayira mazana evanamabhizimisi, uye vane mazano makuru pamusoro pezvinhu zvakasiyana-siyana zvehukama hwekudzidzisa:
- Tora kufarira kumunhu semunhu. Ndine muongorori weInternet anoita mamiriyoni emadhora pagore. Mushure mokunge ndabvunza mubvunzo wangu ndinogara ndichimubvunza pamusoro pezviri kuitika muupenyu hwake, kana kugovana joke kana kumuudza chimwe chinhu chinonakidza chakaitika kwandiri. Somuenzaniso, zuro ndakamunyorera uye mushure mekubvunza mubvunzo wandakaisa, "Mangwana ndiri kutaura mumusangano, saka iye zvino ndiri kugara muimba yangu yehotera ndichikwata maeils nemvere dzebvudzi kumusoro kwepamusoro wangu." akanyora zvakare kuti akaseka zvikuru zvokuti iye akada kuwira pachigaro chake. Iwe haufaniri kutaurira nyaya yako yese yehupenyu, asi zviite iwe chaiye uye ita kuti zvive nyore uye zvinonakidza.
- Usati, "Ndinoda kusarudza uropi hwako." Uropi hwangu "hwakatorwa huoma" uye ndinotanga kunzwa kusuruvara kana ndinonzwa mashoko iwayo. Ndinoziva nguva yandinopedza nemunhu iyeye hakuzovi chinhu kunze kwekubvunzurudzwa. Panzvimbo pekuti, "Ndinonyatsokoshesa maonero ako." Zvakanaka chaizvo uye ndinowana pfungwa yokuti ichava hurukuro inofadza pane kungobvunzurudzwa nemagetsi anotsvaira achipenya.
- Usaedza kuisa nguva yakawanda yomutidzidzisi wako pakutanga. Unganidza nenzira inokurumidza uye iri nyore. Usamukoka iye kune kudya kwemanheru iyo inenge iri nguva yekuzvipira kwemaawa maviri. Kana iwe uri pamusangano iye angave atova nemisangano yakarongwa. Kana iri pamba, angada imwe "nguva-pasi". Anopa kumuendesa kumhepo yepamusoro kana kugovera teji. Kumbira zvaanoda mukofi kana tei yake, umuunze naye Starbucks uye uwane maminitsi gumi nemashanu.
- Iva pachena pamusoro pezvauri kuita uye zvaunoda. Kune zvakawanda "kufunga kusina kunaka" munyika. Ndinoshamisika kuti vanhu vanofunga kuti vanofanira kunyora mapeji mashanu kuti vataure pfungwa imwe. Izvozvo zvinoreva kuti iwe hauzive chaizvo zvauri kutaura nezvazvo. Shanda mukukudziridza mutauro wakachena wekutaura uye mushumo wekutumwa. Funga nezveimwechete kana maviri mibvunzo yaunoda iwe yakapindurwa uye funga nezvemashoko ako uye kuti ungabvunza sei mibvunzo iyi zvakajeka.
- Teerera, teerera, teerera kune zvavanotaura. Usafungisisa pamusoro pezvikonzero zvose nei iwe usingagoni. Icho chikamu chechikonzero nei iwe usisipo. Iti, "Ndiri kutarisana neyada, yada, yada - iwe ungati kuratidza sei kukurira izvo zvipingamupinyi.
- Tenda munhu wacho nokuda kwenguva yavo. Vaudze zvaunenge uchizoita uye apo paunotora matanho, iva nechokwadi chekuvaudza zvauri kuita. Nguva dzose, nguva dzose, nguva dzose uvaudze kana iwe uchitora danho rekuita.
- Dzokera kamwechete kwenguva pfupi. Kana iwe ukaona nyaya huru yaunofunga kuti inonakidzwa nayo - itumira kwaari nemashoko ekurumidza. Kana iwe uine bhizimisi kana unyanzvi uye unogona kupa kupa kumubatsira kune imwe nzira - zvipe. Usati, "Ndingakubatsira sei?" Zvino vanofanirwa kuzviona. Iti, "Ndiri akanaka kwazvo pa _____. Kana iwe ukamboshusha _____ ndipei foni, ini ndichave ndakanyanya kufara kubatsira chero nzira ipi zvandinokwanisa. "Kunyange kana asingakutoreri pamusoro payo, achaonga kukopa kwako.
- Dzidza kugadzira kuwirirana pakati pechikonzero nemigumisiro. Usaisa mutevedzeri wako panzvimbo apo paanofanira kuzviona zvose kwauri. Iwe hausi mwana. Basa rekupa mazano haisi kukutora noruoko ruoko rumwe rwe nzira. Ndekukupa mazano pane iwe uri munzira yako. Basa rako nderokuita hukama pakati pezvaunenge wataurirwa uye kuti unozoshandisa sei muupenyu hwako.