Dzivisa Zvikanganiso Izvi Paunenge Uchinyora Nezvevakwegura Vanopa

Nyaya dzeMutauro

Nyaya dzemitauro. Uye isu, sevanyori vezvinyorwa kubva pakutsvaga mabhuku kune mabhizimusi ekubudiswa kwemashoko mabhuku, vanogona kuwedzera kana kudzivirira maitiro asina kunaka, angave vari rudzi rwemadzinza, evanhukadzi, kana kuti vanorarama.

Ageism, zvisinei, zvisikwa panguva ino kana zvasvika pakunzwisisa kwedu mutauro. Vanyori vakawanda havana kungozvidzidzisa pachavo pamusoro pechinyakare uye zvisingaiti. Mavara emutauro watinoshandisa ose haana zvakawanda zvokutaura nezvekwegura.

Nyanya nyanzvi dzekukwegura, zvisinei, anobvumirana kuti pane zvimwe zvinhu zvausingafaniri kuita kana uchitaura nezvevanhu vakuru.

Pano pane dzakawanda "don'ts" paunonyora nezvevakuru vakura:

1. Usavatumidza kuti "vakwegura," "vakwegura," kana "vagari vakuru."

   Pfungwa yose ye "akare" yave yakajeka zvikuru. Hongu, kumwana muduku, anenge ari munhu mukuru akwegura, asi kune vamwe vedu, vanhu bedzi vakakura kupfuura isu tiri vatana. Shandisa shoko rokuti "akwegura," risati "rekare" - se "vanhu vakwegura."

   "Vakwegura" vanofanira kungoshandiswa sechishanduri, se "vatano vakwegura," uye bedzi pavanotaura kune avo vakwegura uye vasina simba. Usashandise sezwi rinowirirana kune avo vose vari muupenyu hwekupedzisira. Izvi zvinoratidzirwa kusuruvara sezvo vanhu vose vakwegura vasina kusimba.

   Kunyange zvazvo "muvakidzani mukuru" inowanzoshandiswa mune zvenhau, izvichengetedze mukutaura kwako kusina purofiti. Izwi iri rakangobuda kunze kwezuva. Kuvanhu vazhinji vakwegura, kunzi munhu mukuru wepamusoro kunongoratidzira zve "yekare" uye "vakwegura."

   "Mukuru" achiri kugamuchirwa kune vakwegura vazhinji, asi usashandise "vakuru" kurondedzera chero ani zvake ari pasi pemakore makumi matanhatu nemashanu. Panewo uchapupu hwokuti boomers vangave vasingadi shoko iri pavanoshandiswa kwavari. Mumwe mutori wenhau anozivikanwa akataura kuti iyi "maratidziro angave ane nguva yake." Izwi rinotakurwa nemafungiro ezvinyorwa. Inogadzirisa mazino uye kukodzwa, kupera uye kusagadzikana ... "

1. Usataurire kwavari semakrones, ma-curmudgeons, geezers, kana chero shanduro ye "golide."

   
   Zvichida mazwi aya aimbove achiyemura zvinyoronyoro. Havasi kutamba zvino. Dzivisa mashoko nemitsara inobata vanhu kana kuti kutaurirana zvisiri izvo zvinoreva, zvakadai se "zvezera." Kunyangwe kutaura pamusoro pe "makore endarama" kune dambudziko, zvichida nokuti rinoreva kuguma sekumazuva ekuvira kwezuva kana mavara ekuvhuvhu, uye yakashandiswa zvakanyanya mukureva makore ekurega basa.

1. Usashamisika kuti vanhu vakwegura vanogona kunge vachifamba uye vachitaura.

   
   Tinokwanisa kunzwa gee-whiz tone yemunyori anoti, "Tom ane makore 78, asi achiri kushanda semudzidzisi we-bungee-jumping-instructing." Zvakanaka, zvichida izvozvo zvinonakidza, asi mushandi anoshanda, muridzi, mumhanyi, kuzvipira? Kutaura zvazviri, tongedza shoko rokuti "kushingaira," sezvo rinoratidza kuti hazvishamisi kuti munhu akwegura ave achishanda. Usataurire zera zvachose kunze kwekuti zvakanyatsoshanda, uye nguva yakawanda iyo isiri iyo.

2. Usaisa patronize kana kurega vanhu vakwegura

   
   Vanyori vanofanira kuchengetedza mazwi akadai semafungiro, marashi, anotapira, maduku, asingakwanisi, eccentric, senile, grandmotherly, uye mamwe mazwi akafanana. Dzivisa mitauro yakashata yakadai se "Ane makore makumi mapfumbamwe." Usati "sweetie" pakutaura nemukadzi akwegura.
   
   Usashandise vanhu vakwegura sechisungo chejoke. Vanhu vazhinji, avo vasati vava kuwana majee emadzinza anogamuchirwa, vanoita sevasina hanya nemigumisiro yejokes pamusoro pevanhu vakwegura. Vanhu vakwegura vanowanzomupomerwa kuti havasati vanyara kana vachiramba majee akadaro.

3. Usasimbisa hunyengeri hwevanhu vakwegura

   
   Unofungei paunofungidzira mukadzi akwegura kana murume mukuru? Anofadza Sophia Loren uye Sean Connery asina kugona? Kana vanhu vane mifananidzo yakadai seAbe na Mona, vabereki vaHomer Simpson?
   
   Vanhu vakwegura vakangosiyana zvakasiyana nevanhu vaduku. Vanotaridzika uye vane dowdy, vane jet-setters nevatasvi vemabhasi, uye havasati vawanzogadzikana kupfuura vaduku. Vamwe vanochengetedza, uye vamwe, zvakanaka, masango. Vanotamba tennis, yoga, ndiro, uye vari mubhedha mbatata. Vamwe vanhu vakwegura vanoshanda kwenguva yakareba yekurega basa, vamwe vachifamba nechikepe kana gorofu. Vakawanda vari paIndaneti, asi vamwe havangabati kunyange foni.
   
   Dzivisa kukwegura vanhu vose vakwegura mune imwe nhengo - inofadza, inoshanda kana isina simba. Ivo vanhu vakangoita sevamwe vose uye vauya mumushumo unofadza hwemaitiro, maitiro, uye unyanzvi.

Chii chichaitika kana sangano rako richikwira vanhu vakwegura? Zvakanaka, vabatsiri vakwegura vangangokudzivisa, uye, pachena, haungatarisirwi zvakanyanya-kusvika-zuva. Tinocherechedza kuti tisafananidza nhangemutange, zvepabonde, kana mano. Sei tichifanira kubata nezera rakasiyana?

Zvinyorwa zvinorumbidzwa:

American Society on Aging - Great resource pamusoro pekukwegura

Kubudirira Kukwegura: Ndeapi mashoko okushandisa, izvo zvingadzivisa mukutsanangura chizvarwa chekare, Helen Dennis , LA Daily News.